Archive for September, 2009

25
Sep
09

retiring @ 30

I really don’t feel like working.

I have been asking myself this question: “Will my dream of retiring at 30 comes true?”

I am only left with 3 more years to 30, will I be able to catch up with it?

Sky asked me before: “What have you done to ensure that you are able to retire at 30?”

This is my reply to him: “Aiyah, find a golden tortoise lor. Haha if like now cannot find one, rely on you lor.”

 

Human beings are never satisfy, regardless to what they already have or owned.

Some people target for a branded bag, they worked real hard for it.

At last, they owned one.

Then again, they fall in love with a second one, the “cycle” start all over again.

 

Well this is life ya.

If I really wanted to retire at 30, I should really save up, spend lesser (much much lesser),

stop buying stuffs, stop going for luxury meal (and start loving food courts, hawker centre) etc…..

I don’t think I can even survive in this manner, “killing” me will be a better option.

 baby

Haha, I think there goes my dream….unless I strike Toto tonight.

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11
Sep
09

Sister, sister not?

One of my closest friend is getting married in 3 weeks time, I felt so happy for her.

Due to some superstitious stuff (my grandma passed away less than 3 months before her wedding will “clash”), I am unable to be her “sister” of her wedding.

Hmm I feel kinda sad initially, I am looking so forward since I knew her wedding date.

There are too many restrictions from her parents.

I mean I don’t blame them. Every parent wants the best for their children no matter what.

Can you imagine, I can’t be her sister for the day time.

I can only attend her dinner (better than nothing).

I cannot help or touch any of her stuff.

Worst, I cannot touch her wedding grown (with special reminder) which is equivalent to NO HUGS.

I wanted to hug & kiss her for her big day, but…..

 

I have been “sister” for 4 times, it was tiring.

Initial plan is to be 2 more sister for my Sec (above mentioned) & Poly classmate.

The rest is to reserve for my own sisters (40 & XX) & my beloved cousins (if they required).

If I keep do, I will never “retire”….

To me, if I want to be the sister for any “X” person, I need to feel like a “sister” to her or vice versa.

Whenever I carry out my duties as a “sister”, I will do it whole heartedly.

Be sure that my love ones can have their wedding smoothly.

If I am “forced” to do it, it will not be a good one (though I will still try my best to help).

 

Knowing you for 10 over years does not equal to close “sister”.

Whatever agreement made years ago is it still valid?

People just keep changing & both of you don’t feel like close “sister” anymore.

So do you think it is still applicable to be “sister” for each other’s wedding?