One of my closest friend is getting married in 3 weeks time, I felt so happy for her.

Due to some superstitious stuff (my grandma passed away less than 3 months before her wedding will “clash”), I am unable to be her “sister” of her wedding.

Hmm I feel kinda sad initially, I am looking so forward since I knew her wedding date.

There are too many restrictions from her parents.

I mean I don’t blame them. Every parent wants the best for their children no matter what.

Can you imagine, I can’t be her sister for the day time.

I can only attend her dinner (better than nothing).

I cannot help or touch any of her stuff.

Worst, I cannot touch her wedding grown (with special reminder) which is equivalent to NO HUGS.

I wanted to hug & kiss her for her big day, but…..

 

I have been “sister” for 4 times, it was tiring.

Initial plan is to be 2 more sister for my Sec (above mentioned) & Poly classmate.

The rest is to reserve for my own sisters (40 & XX) & my beloved cousins (if they required).

If I keep do, I will never “retire”….

To me, if I want to be the sister for any “X” person, I need to feel like a “sister” to her or vice versa.

Whenever I carry out my duties as a “sister”, I will do it whole heartedly.

Be sure that my love ones can have their wedding smoothly.

If I am “forced” to do it, it will not be a good one (though I will still try my best to help).

 

Knowing you for 10 over years does not equal to close “sister”.

Whatever agreement made years ago is it still valid?

People just keep changing & both of you don’t feel like close “sister” anymore.

So do you think it is still applicable to be “sister” for each other’s wedding?