I heard a very interesting discussion on air FM93.3 Thursday morning. It is host by Cruz Teng & Jia Hui. I really enjoy the morning session with both of their presence.

 

The discussion was about Brad Pitt meet up with his ex-wife Jennifer Aniston to pour out his unhappiness emotion with Angelina Jolie. The DJs are asking the listeners to share their experience of their ex-s contacting them.

 

There is one *#@# story: one lady shared that her ex-boyfriend asked her out for a dinner. During the dinner, the ex keeps complaining about his present girlfriend and emphasize on how happy he used to be when he was with the lady. This is not all, the ex still make himself drunk (maybe is actting drunk) and try to earn sympathy from the lady.

But the final straw is that he even asked the lady “CAN YOU COME TO MY HOUSE AND ACCOMPANY ME FOR THE NIGHT?”

Aiyo how thick-skin can anyone be!!

 

When I heard this ex-s discussion, one of my ex come across my mind. Don’t worry, he is not like the male actor of the above story.

It is just that we are not in contact for years and he just called me suddenly to share with me about the issues he had with his girlfriend. I tried my best to be the listening ears and gave him whatever advise or solutions when he asked. Then the next day, he called up again to ask me for solutions. And this went on for 2 more days (with the same issues). I tried not to answer my mobile when he called or reply his sms. Guess what, he called my place. I had to ask my sister to say that I went to bed. The next day, he called again. Finally, I couldn’t stand it anymore & tell him off. I asked him not to contact me anymore. I am so pissed off because he keep telling me the same thing and he is very INCONSIDERATE. He called at late nights or in the middle of the night. Hey, I need to work the next day & I am no longer his girlfriend (I am not obligated to chat with him regardless of time). I had deleted all his numbers & hopefully I will not get to meet him by chance. I will not know how to react. Maybe I will just pretend not to see him and walk straight off.

 

What is over is over; just leave the nice memories will be much better.

 

Don’t you think so?