This is my 1st time to a party that was so special. You can feel the effort and time spent on this party. There is a “flora” theme for the party, thats why we are all in “flowers”. My dear cousin – Jane had the party specially decorated with nice table setting, balloons, banners etc…She even made door gifts / thank you gifts for her guests. Hee I guess susan ah yi, ah lan ah yi & husband and jiesi must had helped out a lot as well. I really enjoyed myself and especially with all my dearest cousins…
Happy Sweet 21st to Janey!
Though our cousins are not in full strength, we can feel the presence of all. I love all of you….my dearest cousins……………
He is working as the driver of my building management CEO. However, practically I see him sitting in the lobby for almost every time I walked past. (Heard that he is paid quite well).
Neighbor A
She likes to comment “你没有梳头发啊?” I am not really close to her, just chat a bit when met. Then she can just comment this out of the blue. Hee though I know my hair is forever messy.
Neighbor B
Every time I see her, she is combing her hair forever. Her hair is very long, straight and tidy. I don’t know why she need such a long time to appreciate herself in the mirror.
Neighbor C
She never smiles at any people or neighbor. She likes to sing in the toilet.
Stranger lady
She likes to come to my level’s toilet to do big business. The building has 2 toilets at each level, 1 at left & 1 at right side. I belong to the right side of the building. Aiya I am a very KPO person, so I know all the people at my side of the level & I can be sure that she is not from the side of my level. After her business, she likes to comb her hair for real long and then touch up her make up.
Maintenance guy
We have a common “pantry area” outside the toilet for all the tenants from my side and staffs of the building to share. People wash their cups, water bottle, cloths there. This particular guy washes his bowl, fruits there. Sometime he will add a bit of washing his face & clearing his throat at this basin as well. Sounds disgusting right, there is one more ultimate ok. When I was walking out of the toilet last Friday, I hared someone scrubbing something at the basin. As per my KPOness, I went over to find out. There I found him scrubbing his stuff, so out of curiosity; I asked what he was scrubbing. Aiyo, he said: “I am washing my SOCKS.”
I heard a very interesting discussion on air FM93.3 Thursday morning. It is host by Cruz Teng & Jia Hui. I really enjoy the morning session with both of their presence.
The discussion was about Brad Pitt meet up with his ex-wife Jennifer Aniston to pour out his unhappiness emotion with Angelina Jolie. The DJs are asking the listeners to share their experience of their ex-s contacting them.
There is one *#@# story: one lady shared that her ex-boyfriend asked her out for a dinner. During the dinner, the ex keeps complaining about his present girlfriend and emphasize on how happy he used to be when he was with the lady. This is not all, the ex still make himself drunk (maybe is actting drunk) and try to earn sympathy from the lady.
But the final straw is that he even asked the lady “CAN YOU COME TO MY HOUSE AND ACCOMPANY ME FOR THE NIGHT?”
Aiyo how thick-skin can anyone be!!
When I heard this ex-s discussion, one of my ex come across my mind. Don’t worry, he is not like the male actor of the above story.
It is just that we are not in contact for years and he just called me suddenly to share with me about the issues he had with his girlfriend. I tried my best to be the listening ears and gave him whatever advise or solutions when he asked. Then the next day, he called up again to ask me for solutions. And this went on for 2 more days (with the same issues). I tried not to answer my mobile when he called or reply his sms. Guess what, he called my place. I had to ask my sister to say that I went to bed. The next day, he called again. Finally, I couldn’t stand it anymore & tell him off. I asked him not to contact me anymore. I am so pissed off because he keep telling me the same thing and he is very INCONSIDERATE. He called at late nights or in the middle of the night. Hey, I need to work the next day & I am no longer his girlfriend (I am not obligated to chat with him regardless of time). I had deleted all his numbers & hopefully I will not get to meet him by chance. I will not know how to react. Maybe I will just pretend not to see him and walk straight off.
What is over is over; just leave the nice memories will be much better.
One of my closest friend is getting married in 3 weeks time, I felt so happy for her.
Due to some superstitious stuff (my grandma passed away less than 3 months before her wedding will “clash”), I am unable to be her “sister” of her wedding.
Hmm I feel kinda sad initially, I am looking so forward since I knew her wedding date.
There are too many restrictions from her parents.
I mean I don’t blame them. Every parent wants the best for their children no matter what.
Can you imagine, I can’t be her sister for the day time.
I can only attend her dinner (better than nothing).
I cannot help or touch any of her stuff.
Worst, I cannot touch her wedding grown (with special reminder) which is equivalent to NO HUGS.
I wanted to hug & kiss her for her big day, but…..
I have been “sister” for 4 times, it was tiring.
Initial plan is to be 2 more sister for my Sec (above mentioned) & Poly classmate.
The rest is to reserve for my own sisters (40 & XX) & my beloved cousins (if they required).
If I keep do, I will never “retire”….
To me, if I want to be the sister for any “X” person, I need to feel like a “sister” to her or vice versa.
Whenever I carry out my duties as a “sister”, I will do it whole heartedly.
Be sure that my love ones can have their wedding smoothly.
If I am “forced” to do it, it will not be a good one (though I will still try my best to help).
Knowing you for 10 over years does not equal to close “sister”.
Whatever agreement made years ago is it still valid?
People just keep changing & both of you don’t feel like close “sister” anymore.
So do you think it is still applicable to be “sister” for each other’s wedding?
07 July is Ryan’s birthday. We actually missed it on his actual day, so we have a belated with him last Sat.
We had ordered a Blueberry cream cheese cake for him. I personally like as well, hee so I end up helping him to clear half of his cake. Yes, this is a cake that is bake especially for dogs. I think he really love it (from the look when he ate it)
the cake looks delicious right
with his cake
after singing his b-day song
finally, attack the cake
happily eating the cake
thanks xx for taking these pictures, it was a challenging task….
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